Parents play an important role in helping kids reach and maintain
a healthy weight.
Temptation
appears around every corner. The kitchen is full of sweet and salty
snacks, and television is constantly transmitting messages about the biggest burger,
the gooiest desserts or the largest cup of soda that can be purchased for under
a buck. Kids and adults are faced with tough decisions every day about
what to eat, when to eat it and how big a portion to take. As parents,
and more importantly, as adults, it is our job to make sure our kids are
winning the battle of the bulge and growing into adults who make smart, healthy
choices.
Families
that have successfully tamed the calorie and junk-food beast have several
things in common. First, the kids realized there was a problem with their
weight and took the initiative to do something about it, independent of their
parents. It's a delicate line for parents to walk, since you don't want
to pressure your kids to lose weight and overeat more. Kids who
successfully kept off the pounds also drew tremendous support from their
parents and siblings, especially when the family adopted all aspects of the
struggling child’s new, healthy lifestyle. Parents can help set the tone
for success by having healthy, low-calorie foods in the house, exercising with
their kids and helping control portion size.
It's also
important for families to develop a health regime that works for them and is
conducive to their lifestyle. For some, this might involve nutritional
counseling, joining a sports team, or counting calories and measuring food
portions. Staying connected with others fighting the same battle also is
a great form of moral support and encouragement. It's also important to
give kids time to lose the weight and remind them that success is not just
measured on the scale and that gradual weight loss is one of the keys to long-term
success in weight management.
5
Comments Parents Will Choose to Avoid
1) "You're
just big boned compared to your brother or sister." Comparisons
of any kind between siblings can cause major problems in any family, but
especially when weight is involved.
2)
"Maybe you could try a different diet." While this might
sound encouraging, it insinuates that the child isn't trying hard enough or
that what they are doing isn't good enough.
3) "I
didn't like my body when I was younger either." This comment
promotes the idea that poor body image is O.K., which could cause problems
later in life.
4) "You're
so great at (fill in the child's preferred sport)! Maybe you should try
to take it to the next level." Some kids have a natural
competitive streak while others do not. It's important to understand what
will motivate your child and keep them positive.
5) "You
look wonderful! Have you lost weight?" While this might
seem like the perfect thing to say to someone trying to lose weight, it often
can have a detrimental effect if that's the only thing you are praising about
your child.
Stay
positive and get in the trenches to fight the battle with your kids. Now
is the time to begin a family legacy of healthy eating habits and regular
exercise that can be passed down from generation to generation.
If you need
help in understanding Nutrition and Exercise that is right for your children
and family, please call the office and schedule a time for us to discuss your
concerns. Another option is to come to one of our FREE Health
Care Classes scheduled every
Tuesday evening at 6:30 pm in the Newburgh Office. Simply
call the Office and schedule yourself for this FREE Service. For a schedule of topics and dates, go to www.spineboy.com
and click on FREE Health Care Class
Schedule and Topics under the Main
Menu on the Home Page. And please forward this
information to anyone you know who would benefit from it and encourage them to
come to a FREE Health Care Class.
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